
For a while after graduation I felt really lonely-I felt
like I’d left all my friends behind in Sheffield and didn’t really have many
people here in Nottingham. I’m glad to say that this has now changed, and that
I have people in both cities (as well as scattered around the country) that I
can call my friend and I feel really lucky for that. I’ve got people who I don’t
see very often but when I do it’s like we’ve not been apart at all. I’ve got
friends who let me kip on their floor when I need to, or who always offer me their
spare room if I want it. I’ve got friends who make me laugh until my sides hurt
like I’ve just done 20 sit ups and friends who are there when I need a shoulder
to cry on. I’ve got friends who I miss, friends who I don’t realise how much I’ve
missed until I see them again, friends who I really wish I saw more of. There’s
this whole network of people stretched across the country (and in some cases
across continents) that I know I could call on if I needed it-if I wanted
someone to talk to at stupid AM when I can’t sleep or just wanted a hug, or if
I wanted to spend a day pulling stupid faces at all the cameras at a theme
park. I’ve got pen friends, and blogger friends too-people I’ve never met but
who comment on my blogs, or tweets, or
write me
| letters telling me about their lives and all the
things they love. I’ve got so many people who care about me that I don’t know
how I ever felt lonely-in this age of technology no-one is more than a text,
email or Facebook poke away. And you know what? That’s
BRILLIANT.
To all my friends. You’re wonderful. You give me a million reasons to smile,
laugh, and wince when you’re telling cringey stories that come with
actions. I’m so bloody grateful for you
all.
THANKS.
| denotes where my 5 minute alarm went off.
Appreciate this post, bless you.
ReplyDeleteIt's so wonderful to feel connected, to know that there are people you can count on :)
ReplyDelete(Also, brilliant idea to mark where your timer went off and continue! I might borrow this the next time I'm writing on a timer - it's just hard to stop when you're on a roll sometimes!)